Metals, Gemstones and Diamonds – Selecting a Tiara For Your Wedding

Will it be a shimmering silver wedding tiara with rhinestones or the classic golden one with pearls? A wedding tiara is the ultimate accessory to complement your wedding ensemble. An ornament that was an essential accessory to be worn at all the social functions in the reign of Napoleon Bonaparte surely enjoys a coveted grace and elegance.

Wedding tiaras come in all different forms, including the likes of headbands, double headband, comb, bun rings, v-band and a back piece. When deciding on a suitable tiara for your wedding day, the most important thing to take into account is the trio of your wedding outfit, jewelry and most important of all, the hairdo you plan to carry on the big day.

To begin with, when you select the tiara and the jewels or stones to go into it, watch out for the hairstyle you want to carry. Nothing accentuates a well-coiffured look than a pretty and snug shimmering tiara. For instance, a bun ring will complement the classic updo hairstyle in just the right manner, while a back piece works the best with a low bun or a French twist.

Tiara Shapes

When choosing a tiara that will lend just the right charm to your face, start by considering your basic face structure or face-cut. A tiara with some height or peak will go best for those with a round face, while those with an oval face will do fine by choosing one without a peak at the top.

Worn with or without a veil, a tiara is usually embellished with precious jewels such as Austrian crystals, rhinestones, Swarovski crystals, fresh water pearls and faux pearls. The color, tone and style of your wedding gown will clearly indicate what jewels, stones or pearls need to be embellished in your wedding tiara as well as what other wedding jewelry you choose to wear.

Take for instance the classic and conventional white gowns; a tiara that is silverstone, rhinestone or white pearl looks wonderful. A wedding gown in ivory goes pretty well with a tiara in the gold-tone or ivory pearls. Then there are diamond white gowns that are quite new to the family of wedding ensembles and do well with an accompanying tiara in gold, silver or white pearl. On the other hand, a champagne or dark ivory tone of the wedding gown will need to be matched up with a gold tone tiara or dark ivory pearls.

If you are the types who dreads the thought of selecting your own jewelry, especially the tricky ones as the tiara, you can just go by a few basic ground rules. For instance, a tiara, embellished with Austrian crystals and no pearls will go with almost any tone or style of a wedding gown, while pearl tiaras go well with off-white or ivory gowns. Meanwhile, women with short hair do well with a lightweight tiara, such as the headband styles or any of the other more petite shapes.

Selling Your Fine Jewelry and Diamonds

There are many reasons for deciding to sell your unwanted diamonds and fine jewelry. You may be seeking emotional release from a broken relationship, needing emergency cash, purchasing or remodeling your home, or updating your jewelry for something more fashionable.

What Is It Worth?

After you decide to sell your fine jewelry, the first question is: What is it worth? Quite simply, your jewelry is worth what someone else is willing to pay for it. But there is a difference between appraised value and market value. Most appraisals are not a valid indicator of the worth of your jewelry or diamonds. You may only get between 10% and 20% of the appraised value. An appraisal can be issued for different reasons. Sometimes, a high appraisal is used as a marketing tool by a retailer who wants his customer to believe he got a great deal. Insurance companies also don’t mind inflated appraisals, because the premiums customers pay are based on the submitted value. If you want an accurate assessment of your diamond or jewelry’s value, have it appraised by an independent appraiser who has no interest in it. When it comes to diamonds, often appraisals are not accurate as to the color and clarity. There are no industry guidelines, standards or government regulations as to the accuracy required for describing jewelry or its value.

Diamond Grading Certificates

If your diamond came with a certificate from the GIA, the Gemological Institute of America, you will be able to get a valid offer over the phone or emailed to you. There are other diamond grading labs, but GIA is consistently the most accurate. If you are selling a diamond that is probably worth more than $5000 and you have two weeks time, you might consider having your diamond certified by the GIA.

Sell Jewelry Quickly

So where do you go if you want to sell your jewelry or diamonds quickly?


You might first talk to your friends or relatives, and see if anyone is interested in purchasing your jewelry. However, it is not likely you will find a buyer this way, and you may create tension in your friendship by disputing the jewelry’s value.

Ad in the Local Paper

You might also think of placing an advertisement in your local newspaper. Because of the limited number of potential buyers, it may be difficult to find a qualified purchaser willing to give you full market value.


The absolute worst place to sell jewelry is a pawnshop. They are in the money loaning business, and they buy all kinds of junk. You will be offered ten cents on the dollar if you are lucky. Pawnshops are usually located in less than desirable neighborhoods, so you may need to be concerned for your safety.

Retail Jewelry Stores

In most areas companies that purchase or take jewelry on consignment from the public are required to be licensed and regulated by the state and often local law enforcement agencies.

However, retail jewelry stores have diamonds given to them on consignment from large diamond dealers. If they purchase your diamond, they will have to lay out their own cash, so they will offer considerably less to purchase it out right.

On Line Diamond and Fine Jewelry Buyers

If you look on the Internet, you will find a number of companies offering to buy your gold, fine jewelry, quality watches, and diamonds online. You can contact these companies by telephone or email. They can provide you with a tentative offer based on the information you provide. Once the company receives and evaluates your jewelry you are contacted with a firm offer. WARNING some of these firms will offer you a unrealistic high price to get you to send them your jewelry and they contact you with a significantly lower price.

There is always a potential for loss when sending expensive items. If you choose one of these companies, find out which carrier they use and if the item will be fully insured. The US Postal Service is probably your best choice as they are self insured and your jewelry is not insured by a third party.

Usually sellers choose an online jewelry buying company for convenience. It means you don’t have to go anywhere. But often customers are disappointed when they hear how little money they will receive. By then they have already sent the item, and may figure it is not worth the trouble to pay to have it returned to them.

Questions to ask on line buyers

o How long have you been in business?

o Do you have a showroom or office that i can bring my items to?

o Are you Better Business complaint free?

o Are you licensed?

o Are you in compliance with state and federal laws and guidelines?

On Line Auctions

In addition to online gold and jewelry buying companies, there are also the Internet auction sites, such as eBay and On these sites, you can post the jewelry items you have for sale, and potential buyers will respond with offers. On Internet auction sites you will encounter a lot of people looking for a bargain, and possibly even scammers and criminals. Because you are dealing with individual buyers, not a reputable company, you are at risk for loss. If you do decide to sell through one of these sites, make sure to protect yourself as much as possible by meeting your buyer in a safe public such as your bank or Starbucks.

Auction Houses

In addition to online auction sites, there are a number of highly reputable, well-established auction houses that have auctions for fine jewelry, such as Bonhams & Butterfields, Christie’s, and Sotheby’s. Generally these auction houses are only interested in high value items. Bonham & Butterfields will also give you a good idea of your item’s value, before you decide where to sell it. There are not auctions everyday, so you will have to wait awhile for your proceeds. In addition, as the seller you are responsible for the costs associated with selling your jewelry, such as marketing photographs and a commission, and these will reduce your profit. Bonhams & Butterfields will take lower value items to list in their auction catalogues. This does entail a considerable delay in selling your jewelry, however, because they only publish catalogues a few times a year. The advantage to being willing to wait to sell is that you may receive more money.

Your Best Option

There are advantages to selling your jewelry quickly: cash in your pocket immediately and removing emotional attachments rapidly. But how do you ensure confidentiality, no scam artists, and no security risks? Your best option may be a reputable diamond and jewelry buyers with an established place of business, such as The San Francisco Diamond Exchange. When you deal with us, you may rest assured that you are dealing with a fully licensed diamond and jewelry professional. This provides you with the ultimate security. When choosing a diamond purchaser, you may want to find out if you can walk in with your jewelry, or if your have to send it by mail. Obviously, it is more secure if you do not have to use a delivery service.